Waiting for a newborn and being a Dad is one of the greatest things that can happen to any man. Be it the first time, third, or whichever number, it’s all the same an eager moment.
Therefore, as your wife patiently with crumbs waits for the young blood to come, you must give her all the attention as a dad.
The attention is, however, split when the child is born, to give both mother and child their equal share. But, before the baby comes too, what are some essential things to have in mind for preparation?
Preparation for the Bundle of Joy
There are several ways by which a new Dad can prepare while waiting for the newest human being to be born. And as you intend to be ready for the child, one thing which must be clear in your mind is that you’ll have to depart with a good part of your money.
That, however, should be done willingly, since it’s you and your family that will enjoy the moments later.
These are some of the areas where you should spend your money in;
- Baby Care Necessities and Bonding
Before the baby comes, it’ll be of great importance that you be familiar with a few tips, even if it’s not your first time to be a dad.
- Purchase podcasts that contain detailed child development ideas.
- You can as well decide to attend some parenting classes with your partner.
- Have for yourself a childhood book, and read it to a mock-baby. (absurd)
- Pester the nurses with well-baby visits queries.
- Buy a bunch of toys and dolls in preparation.
- Equip yourself with thorough knowledge about fatherhood.
You can make use of the internet, to learn how feeding and holding the babies establish bonding.
- Baby Car and Home
As your wife nears giving birth, it will be evident that her strength will diminish. You can hence, be of great help to her by getting a car and house readily available mainly for the baby.
You can achieve that by: –
- Stocking the freezer with nutritious meals.
- Ensuring a proper installation of the baby’s car seat.
- Start assisting in various activities around the house.
- You can as well go for a nanny to help around.
- By setting up an excellent nursery for the baby.
- Start making friends with other dads, besides hanging around them.
- Hiring a personal driver, to ferry your family to and from home for various health-related issues.
- Job and Money
One of the quickest ways to show your readiness for the child is when; all your fiscal ducks are in check. You will have no choice but to: –
- Start applying for paternity leave.
- Ensure that the family health insurance cover is in a row.
- Have a chat with a financial planner in case of any otherwise.
- Start saving up for education. (You think it’s too early? No, it isn’t because time flies)
Time for Birth
Well, if you have been afraid of being a dad, then it’s after birth that you’ll shy away from the fear. There are, therefore, many ways to have a smooth start-up with a baby.
- Have a list of good buddies around whom you’ll notify immediately the baby is born.
- Have some basic knowledge about childbirth class.
- Take a reconnaissance of the facility where birth will take place.
- You may also plan to stand by your spouse to help manage pain.
- Involve yourself in the pregnancy to the best of your ability.
- Have some friends or relatives around to engage in other things like, making arrangements for childcare.
Since you are not an angel to know the exact time that the baby will come out,it will require that you pack a few items for you and wife in a backpack. Just don’t carry the entire house with you, you can carry: –
A Pillow and Blanket
The hospital is not your home; therefore, you’re not used to the environment there. It is for that reason that you ought to carry some pillows and duvets, in case the process starts or ends at weird hours.
Your favorite magazine
As you watch every tick of the clock waiting for your son or daughter, you should carry along your best podcast to keep you busy.
Your Cell Phone and Charger
There is a likelihood that your phone will run out of battery as you hopefully wait for your wife’s delivery. You may as well want to take photos or videos of such rare moments.
Carry Some Snacks
Your tummy doesn’t care if you are going to have a child or not. Therefore, the pains may have ambushed your wife before taking dinner.
And, indeed, you don’t want the abashing stomach rumbles; you therefore, have no choice but to carry snacks along to silence the worms.
Don’t Forget your Laptop or Tablet
Did I see somewhere written FREE Wi-Fi? Yes, your wife is not going to use the Wireless Fidelity while giving birth; the tablet or laptop will engage you as you catch up with emails, subscriptions among others.
It can take forever for the baby to come; your backpack will do you a great deal if you carry the recommended items to see you through.
You are, however, not limited to the electronic gadgets; decide to have a long talk with whoever went with you to the facility.
The Takeaway
One significant lifetime responsibilities is to have a child. Even though some men get surprised when told that they are going to be fathers, they still later accept and gladly hold the little human with sheep eyes.
Not to forget about the responsibilities, one that binds them together is money. So, willingly spend the money on the rare chance.
As you spend money, do not forget to surprise your life with the best gift for being the mother of your children. Spend it all!